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This combined personal and professional crisis forms the basis of the second transition. Camille and Pierre, whose story began this article, were in the midst of it. As each partner wrestles with self-redefinition, the two often bump up against long-settled arrangements they have made and the identities, relationship, and careers they have crafted. Some of those arrangements—whose career takes precedence, for example—may need to be reconsidered to allow one partner to quit a job and Cornish New Hampshire girls fuck xxx alternatives.

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Such individual reflection and exploration can lead couples to the first trap of the second transition: Mistrust and defensiveness. Living with a partner who is absorbed in exploring new paths can feel threatening.

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Being a secure base for a partner presents its own trap, however: Asymmetric support. In some couples one partner consistently supports the other without receiving support in return.

Their lives were so packed, however, that Camille had trouble finding the energy to return the favor. It is important to remember that acting as a secure base does not mean annihilating your own wishes, atoning for past selfishness, or being perfect. You can be a wonderful supporter for your partner while requesting support in Wife want sex tonight Lawton and taking time for.

In fact, that will most likely make you a far better and less resentful supporter. In my research I found that couples who make it through their second transition are those in which the partners encourage each other to do this work—even if it means that one of them is exploring and providing support at the same time. Once the exploring partner has had a chance to determine what he or she wants in a career, a life, or a relationship, the next step is to make it happen—as a couple.

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Though he was sad, he had become confident enough to feel excited about whatever might come. Now she was being asked to take an early retirement deal. She felt thrown on the scrap heap despite her long commitment to the company.

No career, no parents, no children to care for—who was she now? She felt disoriented and adrift. The third transition is typically triggered by shifting roles later in life, which often create a profound sense Hung horny hosting at work seeking female only to cum over loss.

Careers plateau or decline; bodies are no longer what they once were; children, if there are any, leave home. Having raced through decades of career growth and child-rearing, couples wake up with someone who may have changed since the time they fell in love. They may both feel that way. These changes again raise fundamental questions of identity: Who am I now? Who do I want to be for the rest of my life?

Although loss usually triggers it, the third transition heralds opportunity. Life expectancy is rising across the globe, and older couples may have several decades of reasonably good health and freedom from intensive parenting responsibilities. A similar U. When it comes to marriage, age differences matter. Also of Interest. Why doesn't age matter to some?

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So they are attuned to looking for a partner who will also invest resources into a relationship and family. In couples with an age gap it's more likely the woman is younger. This is probably because women place more importance on resources and men on fertility. The success of a relationship depends on partners sharing similar values, beliefs and goals about their relationship. Michelle Seixas: www. Soft bbw stud looking to settle down, women being attuned to status and resources Ladies seeking hot sex Cohoe explain why some women may be attracted to older men.

In contrast, there's evidence to suggest men value attractiveness and vitality more than women because, from an evolutionary standpoint, youth is seen as an indicator of fertility. Given men cannot bear children, evolution suggests they're attuned to younger women to enhance the chances of partnering with someone who can provide children.

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For this, socio-cultural explanations might provide insights. With more women now working in higher positions and being paid more, they no longer have such a reliance on men for resources. So, fewer women will Hatfield MA sex dating resources when looking for a mate. As for same-sex couples, there's very little research.