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I just know that"—a certainty built on a particular kind of fantasy: "I think they give more consideration to how the man feels than sometimes themselves.
And you think 'gee, would it be like that? He goes through scores of Chinese Internet pen-pals before finding year-old Sandy, a woman from Anhui, to bring back to the States and marry.
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Depictions of so-called "mail order brides" and the men they marry are rarely flattering sketches of either party, as so much of the time they ought not to be.
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Or just as frequently, stories elicit only pity for seemingly desperate women looking for a ticket out of an impoverished country. It feels as if the struggle for self-possession has already been lost as they recite for the camera white-knight fantasies of escape. We shudder to imagine what might be in store.
But the focus of Seeking Asian Female is not, and indeed could not possibly be, merely about the vexations of realized fantasy or the psychology of "yellow fever," as Lum set out to explore. Sandy is no object of anyone's wish-fulfillment. Her marriage to Steven is far secondary to her self-sufficiency, bravery, and intelligence in defining who Housewives want sex Wellborn Florida 32094 is.
Immediately after moving to San Francisco, she sets about learning English, making plans to go to college, in the hopes of finding work as a nurse. We learn through Lum's voiceover that in China, Sandy had moved from her village at age 18 to Shenzhen, the country's fourth largest city, and worked her way up for the factory floor to an office job, so that she could afford to buy her parents a house in their home town.
There is a particularly poignant moment in the film when, soon after Sandy arrives, Steven goes to work, and she decides to clean and Evening free time friends his kitchen. Sandy takes the condiment bottles off the shelves and piles them next her as she searches for their translations on the computer, and then painstakingly relabels each with Chinese characters.
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We see her going to English class and learning new words—"messy," she smiles, "that's what Steven's apartment is.
But it is Steven who needs Sandy to live well, not Sandy who needs rescuing. Steven, meanwhile, tells us that he's "dead without.
Somehow, it feels improbable. Steven and Sandy's relationship contains all the conflicts and misunderstandings you'd expect, but also a tenderness and innocence as the two navigate their unusual union. But we also see that Steven is Sandy's choice as much as she is his, and that she truly cares for.
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Steven and Sandy's marriage shatters the idyllic fantasies stereotypes about "powerful" Caucasian men and "submissive" Asian women tend to excite. The truth is that, Hombre Minneapolis insastisfecho Lum puts it and as all couples learn, "No matter who your wife [or husband] is, marriage is hard. Submit a letter to the editor or write to letters theatlantic.
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