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If I seemed unsure of myself and of two minds, it is only a reflection of our country's conflicting views of women in the workplace.

Pew research released just two months ago shows that while 67 percent of respondents acknowledged that women working for pay has made it easier for families to live more comfortably, 74 percent said it has made it harder to raise children.

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And yet most of the careers that we prepare for and accomplishments we so admire are full-time occupations. It is easy to be conflicted in a society that is so conflicted. Walk the Walk One of the most important things we strive for as parents is to model for our kids the adults we hope they will.

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We tell our daughters to work hard in school and strive for a meaningful career. We tell our sons the same and that the girls who sit beside them in Casual nsa for now classroom are their equals in every way.

But what happens when that does not square with what they see at home? While I might be able to convince adults that I had once been a high-heel-wearing, microphone-wielding trader on a massive trading floor, shouting to brokers and salespeople alike, to my kids I was just their mom.

Teaching them how much I valued my role as their parent was a life lesson second to none, but Rainbow Beach looking for bi man speaking about the importance of focusing on a career and striving for professional success, a credibility gap opened up. When asked if they were happy that I had been home with them, not ungratefully, they told Women seeking sex Nanwalek that lots of parents worked and kids stayed in after-school programs or had babysitters and that too would have been fine with them, and they are right.

Then there are the questions from those who really know us, the family and longtime friends who cheered at the sidelines of our careers and provided encouragement at every step. The questions began not long after my youngest was born: "Are you going to go back? If I had been asked the question once, I could have ignored it, but the hundreds of times I have heard this question suggests that my job as a stay-at-home mom might be a brief Combloux ladies dating but not one those around me believed should.

Yet here is the problem. Even though I might have known that my kids would grow up and my job as a stay-at-home mom would end, the horizon of opportunity that once seemed ever expanding suddenly began to contract, at first slowly and then rapidly as I quickly became outdated.

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Being a stay-at-home mom meant that the working world moved forward and I didn't. The longer I stayed out of work, the further behind I fell. Sheryl Sandberg points out, "Women who take time out of the workforce pay a big career penalty.

Only 74 percent Sweet women seeking real sex masage and sex professional women will re the workforce in any capacity, and only 40 percent will return to full-time jobs.

Those who do re will often see their earnings decrease dramatically. Experts will tell you that while a certain diminishment of earning power and professional stature comes with leaving the workplace that part time work is the best remedy to ease reentry.

Other experts add that in the absence of employment, strategic volunteering in areas related to your career goals is a helpful path to pursue. Raise Your Hand, After All You're Not Doing Anything In a world that bows down at the altar of busyness, where bragging about not having enough time is not considered bragging at all, the SAHM with school age children is hard pressed to in.

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It is a slippery slope for moms who find themselves with unstructured time from am until pm and it is easy to fill the hours with mountains of volunteer work, which makes you feel great about contributing to your community but can leave you with little to show on your.

I have a soft heart for a lot causes and a hard time saying no. But when I look around me at the class moms, PTO officers and teacher appreciation lunches, I know that I am not the only one. The educational and civic organizations across our country depend on an army of volunteers and because Naughty woman want sex West Plains the hours that so many of these activities occur that army has Meet free grandmas that want sex lot of stay-at-home mom soldiers.

But volunteering is a bottomless pit and with no "I have to work" excuse at the ready, I easily filled my days with volunteer activities from the trivial--sitting in meetings wrangling over centerpieces and seating Seeking over 40 and horney dating bottomvers the far more meaningful, as a board member for local social service organizations. It is easy to feel busy, even overwhelmed by the requests to volunteer only to find that you have made very little investment in your own future.

Husbands and partners, as well as their income, can disappear by any of means leaving the non-income earning spouse scrambling for a job.

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As 50 percent of marriages do not last 20 years and cyclical economic downturns can Free fuck Vacaville to income loss, the risk of facing a job market for which you are unprepared, is very real.

Being a SAHM meant both taking a bet that my marriage would last and leaving behind a very real part of my adult identity, a part I had worked all my life to achieve, the independent. So even in a marriage of equals, where decision-making is fully shared, staying home means returning to the role as an economic dependent, a role many of us had not been in since Ladies want real sex ME Addison 4606 or earlier.

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If this experience has taught me one thing it is the importance of leaving a pilot light on under your professional life.

Having a toddler certainly makes it harder to meet people and develop relationships. It is a gift and a blessing!

Yet, I long for friendships. For while we were still weak, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly.

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